Hello and welcome. This is Tinque…
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to feel you’re “enough” for ANY man or better yet YOUR man? Have you ever imagined what it would it feel like having your old insecurities just fade away while your old fears dissolve into the glow of true love you can just FEEL from him ALL the time as well as receiving all the attention and affection you might only have dreamed of?
This CAN happen for you.
I know this because I did it for myself. If I was able to come to feeling SO GOOD from the horrible place I started in, I KNOW you can.
I brought myself out of a deep abyss of pain and struggle, overtaken by feelings of betrayal and abandonment, vacillating, not knowing what to with myself or my relationship. I felt SO lost.
My story begins like yours may have (please let me know your story, I would love to know how I can best help you).
I was in a happy relationship. My man and I were in love; we got along so well, and then all of a sudden I felt as though I had been thrown off a cliff to shatter into a million pieces below. I discovered he was looking at porn on his computer. I was utterly DEVASTATED. The bottom of my heart fell out.
Worrying about other maybe prettier women as well as thoughts of maybe being rejected, abandoned, or cheated on have always been HUGE issues for me. I could easily fall into obsession around this. And now here were hundreds, THOUSANDS of other women he was looking at. Maybe lusting for? He was regularly looking at pictures of naked women right there in my house on the computer I use too!!!
And he wasn’t just looking every now and then. This wasn’t just “guy” stuff I could ignore.
It felt like cheating. It felt like I had been punched so hard in the gut I had no breath left in me. All my fears of abandonment, all of my insecurities, some of which I was unaware, just OVERWHELMED me. My brain scrambled for anything, any kind of answer, trying to put any semblance of sense to this. I couldn’t nor did I want to deal with it.
I started questioning everything I knew about my man and my relationship. Any good feelings I might have had about myself withered away, and I was plunged into a pit of self-loathing and self-recrimination. Because I had always been raised to be so nice and sweet, never rocking the boat, I couldn’t access ANY anger let alone acknowledge it. And at first it was all directed at ME.
I had NO idea what to do or where to turn. I wanted to just disappear. All I could feel was the one question burning in my heart: “Why am I not ENOUGH for him?”
Over the next couple of years, I found my answers, and it wasn’t AT ALL what I thought they might be. Indeed I needed to work through a great deal before I could feel good, and learn how to FEEL like I was not only ENOUGH, I was MORE than PLENTY, and I, ME, was FABULOUS.
And now I DO feel INCREDIBLY fabulous.
But a huge part of my process and what became an inroad into myself was discovering what sex is REALLY all about and not just how it relates to my man’s porn, but what role it plays within ME.
I had to find out not only what I could and couldn’t live with, I also had to dig down deeply into very dark places and confront my most primal fears, AND I also had to somehow create a whole new relationship with my man, part of which involved not only learning how to express my feelings to him in a way he could hear but one which also deepened our connection.
Discovering a more profound sense of my sensuality and my sexuality became my vehicle for working through my fears which led to an unveiling of a love for myself as well as a love for my man. I OPENED myself up in a way I’d never even imagined was possible. And in this I HEALED. And as I was doing this for myself, my relationship with my man turned into something SPECTACULAR.
What I was able to do for myself is something I’ve never heard ANY therapist, coach, writer, or woman talk about.
And I want to do this for YOU.
You can learn how to get so close to your man, every other relationship you hear about will pale in comparison. It doesn’t matter whether your man looks at porn, like mine did (and still does by the way albeit far less) or if you just KNOW you can be closer to him but don’t know how to get there.
I will reveal the ways I discovered to be very effective in effecting the changes I sought within ME, and because I was changing, as is inevitable, changes happened within HIM as well, good changes, and happily things changed WITHIN US too, yummy changes.
I will teach you how to not only face the pain but also how to have it work for you.
I will show you how to uncover and face your fears and open them into your heart that you may trust.
I will give you detailed instructions on how to become far more intimate with your body and thus yourself.
We will take an erotic walk together to explore your sexuality and unleash maybe the most powerful orgasms you have ever had and in so doing, your partner will be brought more deeply into you and you him to enjoy not only the most pleasure you’ve ever had, but also the most profound connection to each other. And you will have SO much FUN doing so.
And in this you can heal your mind, heart, and spirit.
*** Tool and tips to help you heal
*** Learn how to recognize and root out fear
*** Ways to open your heart and keep it open no matter what is happening
*** Learn how to trust – yourself and him
*** Communication skills to bring you closer right away
*** Learn how to heal yourself sexually and have the best time doing so
*** More about orgasms than you could have imagined
*** Learn how to have the most mind blowing orgasms ever
*** And so much more
If you would like this for yourself, please join me for an AMAZING JOURNEY….